Pain Is An Evitable Feeling

​Pain is an evitable feeling. It’s part of being human.

No matter how much we try to avoid feeling hurt, even if we build walls, put on a mask or a cover up, deny how we feel or turn our heart as cold as ice, pain still penetrates at the softest part of our being.

We can only get hurt when our expectations fail … when the people we love fail. We get hurt because we love. You cannot be affected by anything you don’t care at.

Even if you deny that you actually care, you know deep inside the tingling feeling exists.

Pain and love does not share the same room. They do not co-exist. You can keep on loving even if you get hurt but you can’t keep hurting when you love. There will always be joy in our hearts when we love and that erases pain.